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2020-03-04 03:17 pm

Safe Meat for Carnivorous Kin/Theriotypes

Originally posted: July 12, 2019

Over on Tumblr there was a recent post (well, as of mid-2019) by necrophagist about more authentic ways to satisfy ‘kin cravings, particularly meat-related ones. Considering my kintype is an obligate carnivore, I think a lot about meat. Specifically rare muscle meat and organ meat. I’ve never really shared what I look for in a safe meat to satisfy my cravings, so I figured it was time to share the food I consider when I’m feeling shifty.

I’ve worked as a chef or some variety of food service worker for a good seven years of my life (although that doesn’t make me an expert), and this is what I generally regard as safe if cooked properly (note some of these cooking temps are lower than what the USDA recommends). I’ve included a note on each one as to whether it needs to be cooked prior to consumption. Remember, the less cooked an animal product is, the more likely you are to contract food poisoning/parasites. Usually a quick Google will give you a safe recipe for any of these foods. If you want tips on how to cook something safely, please send me a message!

The following list contains meat and animal products that are often easily accessible (i.e. I’ve found most of these at my local Walmart) in the United States, plus some less common ones. Please shoot me a message if you have any easily accessible meats in other countries that I haven’t covered.

Red Meat
  • Beef liver - Cook

    • If you eat this regularly, watch your vitamin A intake. Liver is extremely high in vitamin A, which accumulates in your body, unlike water soluble vitamins like vitamin C

  • Beef tongue - Cook

  • Oxtail - Cook

  • Bone-in steak - Cook

  • Ribs (beef or pork) - Cook

  • Lamb shanks - Cook

  • Beef soup bones - Cook

    • Occasionally contain marrow…and often extremely cheap!

    • Great for making bone broth

  • Cured sausage - No cook

    • Salami, pepperoni, summer sausage etc.


Poultry
  • Chicken liver - Cook

    • Like beef liver, watch your vitamin A intake if you eat this regularly

  • Chicken gizzards - Cook

  • Whole chicken - Cook

    • Sometimes contains giblets like liver, heart, gizzards, and neck…check the packaging and it should tell you

  • Skin-on chicken parts - Cook

    • Peel the skin off, salt it, and fry it like bacon!

  • Whole turkey - Cook

    • Especially easy to find in the United States around Thanksgiving

    • These will take multiple hours to cook, fyi


Fish
  • Whole fish - Cook

    • Make sure these are gutted before cooking

  • Skin-on salmon or trout fillets - Cook

    • Because these species have small soft scales, you can eat the skin, and it’s delicious if you fry it and salt it!

  • Canned fish with bones and skin - No cook

    • Anchovies, sardines, salmon, etc.

  • Pickled herring - No cook

  • Smoked fish - No cook

    • Often salmon, trout, or whitefish

  • Dried baby anchovies - No cook

    • Usually sold at Asian food stores

  • Raw, de-boned fish sold at sushi counters - No cook

    • Fish sold at sushi counters is frozen at very low temperatures to kill parasites. Please let your grocery store/fishmonger do this step for you, as many home freezers cannot reach these low temps.


Other Animal Products
  • Blood sausage - Cook

    • Sometimes at delis or specialty stores

  • Fresh pig’s blood - Cook

    • Often at your local butcher if you have one

  • Irradiated eggs - No cook

    • These eggs are irradiated (it’s safe!) to kill any pathogens present in them

  • Whole rabbit - Cook

    • Often found at farmer’s markets

  • Beef/pork/mutton organs - Cook

    • Kidneys, brain, heart, trotters, tripe, lungs, etc. (often at your local butcher)

  • Game meats - Cook

    • Venison, wild ducks/geese/pheasant, elk, bear, etc.

    • Sometimes sold in specialty shops, or buddy up to a hunter. Wild game isn’t screened for parasites like commercial meat is, so take extra precautions if you’re consuming wild meat.


Again, if you have any questions or want to know why I included/didn’t include something on the list, let me know! Stay safe folks.
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2020-03-04 01:10 pm

Respectability

Originally posted: July 19th, 2019

Pretending that everyone in the ‘kin community is perfectly normal and that their non-humanity is only something on the side that doesn’t affect them is one, a lie, and two, really toxic to those in the community who don’t fit the bill of a “normal person”, whatever that may mean. It’s stifling, and it’s a shame that it’s cringy to howl in the forest at night, to wear gear, and to acknowledge cravings or urges that aren’t remotely within the realm of human normal. It’s extremely unfair that we should feel the need to sugarcoat the less normal parts of 'kinity, both within the community and to curious or ridiculing outsiders. Yet, I know I’m blatantly, embarrassingly guilty of this. At any rate, talking respectability politics has reminded me that it’s alright for me to enjoy my non-humanity. It’s so freeing and even empowering to feel okay doing things that make me feel less human.

Ah, but a word of caution. Don’t confuse the push for the freedom to do these things if they make you happy and comfortable with needing to do these things to fit in with the otherkin community. Maybe this point is obvious to everyone else, but if I were to go back ten years ago and go through my intro to the community again, I for one would really balk at the idea of joining the otherkin community or exploring my identity if I thought everyone had to wear gear, mod their bodies to look more like their 'types, or be public with their identities to be accepted as a member of the community.

To be completely honest, I probably jumped at emphasizing this because I’m extremely conservative about even hinting at my identity to anyone. I’m happy to walk the human walk and talk the human talk at work/school/with friends and crouch on the floor and snarf down half a rotisserie chicken while I’m home alone. But, everyone’s unique and has different levels of comfort with and ways to express their identities. If you’re not comfortable or able to compartmentalize your identity, don’t! Express your non-humanity how you see fit! You can still live in human society and follow your dreams while being public with your identity. Yet, if keeping your identity completely private is the only thing you’re comfortable with, don’t feel like you need to show it to others, whether they’re 'kin or not.

Don’t let anyone tell you how to experience your 'kinity. Be silly with it, be serious with it, express it, don’t…do whatever makes you comfortable, whether you’re new to the community or an elder greymuzzle or old fruit. That being said, don’t feel like you can tell others how to express their identity either, especially if they’re not hurting anyone. There’s no reason you shouldn’t be able to find a home in the otherkin community. Be yourself, whether that’s appearing human or not.
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2020-03-04 12:45 pm

Misconceptions

Originally posted: January 14, 2016

*Adapted from 30 Days of Otherkin Challenge

Otherkin are extremely easy to misunderstand, especially from an outsider’s point of view, and as a result, have become the butt end of many a joke. Honestly, it’s understandable, considering otherkinity is a very off-the-wall identity. However, there have been so many people trolling the otherkin community over the years (and I’d argue as otherkin become more visible online that this has only increased in frequency), that stories upon stories have been fabricated about the weird things otherkin do, and have subsequently passed around the dark corners of the internet. Of course, there are people out there who take these stories to be 100% true, and have a vastly flawed view of what otherkin are really like. So, with that, I’d like to clear up a misconception or two.

One misconception I’d like to clear up is that otherkin are crazy or fantasy obsessed. From my experience, a lot of otherkin are very reasonable people…people you’d consider pretty normal. Every community is going to have their weirdos, non-human communities included, but it seems a vast majority of people who identify as non-human are the kind of everyday people you’d meet walking down the street. Kind people. Intelligent people. Even successful and motivated people.

Those few otherkin I have known that did have “issues” had problems not because they identified as a non-human, but because they had classifiable disorders unrelated to their otherkinity. Otherkin can be mentally ill. Many are. However, that doesn’t mean that otherkinity and mental illness are mutually inclusive, or that one causes the other. Comments saying that otherkin are messed up and need help are common, and I’m sure there are otherkin that do have “issues”, whatever your definition of issues may be. However, I know a number of people (including family members, friends, and siblings of friends) who do not identify as non-human who are far more “messed up” than any otherkin I’ve known online or in person. These were people who were/are harming others or themselves, which is something I’ve never known to be caused by a non-human identity. Yes, there are harmful people in the otherkin community, but that’s true of any community of a decent size, and as far as I’m aware, there are not enough data to conclude these harmful tendencies are caused by non-human identity.

We don’t bark at the meat at the grocery store. We don’t eat rocks (unless you count rock candy, because mmm, delicious). We don’t rub all over strangers’ legs wanting to be petted. We don’t try to breathe water (although it seems many people would like us to try...). I promise. Unfortunately, it’s tough to get others without the experiences we’ve had to understand what we mean when we say we’re a wolf or a mermaid, without tripping their “crazy person” alarm. It’s so frustrating trying to sound reasonable when talking about otherkinity, therianthropy, draconity, etc., because saying something like “sometimes I feel like I have invisible cat claws where my fingernails are” sounds like it’s coming from a nut job, even though phantom shifts are common and can be experienced by non-kin and otherkin alike.

On the internet, it’s hard for others to see how we function in everyday life, and I get the feeling anti-kin and trolls think everything we do throughout the day involves our kintype(s). Do they think we run around yelling at people for not addressing us as our kin/theriotypes? Do they think we eat birdseed out of other people’s bird feeders for lunch everyday? I don’t know, but it seems like there’s a lot of senseless hate based solely on assumptions. It can be easy for newly Awakened to obsess over their otherkinity because discovering your identity can be an earth-shattering revelation, but once you have to start dealing with (or are already dealing with) other things like learning to live on your own, starting a career, going to college, etc., focusing solely on your otherkinity is nigh impossible.

Anyway, I just really want non-kin to know that past all the misinformation and weird crap that gets passed off as factual, a lot of people who identify as non-human are what you’d likely call “normal” (maybe even people you know and love, and would never suspect as being otherkin). I also want non-kin to know that otherkin can have boring normal lives while still being otherkin, or can go on to lead successful lives without losing sight of their otherkinity.

Basically, our otherkinity is part of who we are, but it’s not all we are. It doesn’t take a “crazy” person to identify as non-human.